3 Things We Take With Us.

Here's one of the books I mentioned: "How To Be Totally Miserable." And here are some of the chapter titles, and I suggest you do the opposite. 
1. Don't do anything 
2. Worry about things you can't control 
3. Think about yourself 
4. Blame everything and everyone 
5. Don't take action 
6. Put Yourself down 
7. Don't Set Goals 
8. Hold on to grudges 
9. Judge other people's motives 
10. Don't learn anything new. 
11. Postpone prayer 
12. Don't smile 
13. Don't laugh 
14. Sleep too much 
15. Be easily offended